Jealousy might damage any relationships, especially if this jealousy is completely groundless. Well, a man who is jealous of his girlfriend's attentions to another man can be understood, but there are cases when jealousy seems to be absurd, to say the least of it.
Men feel jealous when their girlfriends spend too much time with their friends or when they kiss or almost lick their pets without paying attention to their boyfriends. As to me, I think that the most absurd kind of jealousy is being jealous of sex toys. Haven't you heard of something like this?
Many men are really jealous of their girlfriend's and wives passion to sex toys, especially to those which by their shape resemble penis - dildos and vibrators. There was even a case when a 61year man was sued for damaging his wife's sex toy - once he lost his temper and broke up his beloved wife's vibrator.
As it was found out, the man was completely enable to continue sex life. Nevertheless, the man believed that his wife was absolutely satisfied with their marriage .As soon as he realized that everything was not as wonderful as he thought he attacked his wife with anger and began damaging the sex toy.
The frightened wife called the police. After that poor woman sued her husband who admitted his guilt and agreed to pay $ 60 000 dollars to his wife to compensate moral damage caused by his behavior. However, the complainant considers this punishment to be too mild.
Jealousy of sex toys, which are inanimate objects is specific one.
Why is he jealous of sex toys?
There can be a few reasons for such jealousy.
1.Your boyfriend might think that a sex toy gives you more pleasure than his penis.
What should you do?
After each lovemaking let your boyfriend know he is a great lover and nobody else can give you as much enjoyment as he. By all means explain to him that you do enjoy making love to him and that sex toys are only a way to vary your orgasmic sensations. Let him know that no sex toy can replace his penis!
2. He might think that his penis is not big enough for you.
Oh, most men worry about their penises' size. They do spend much time and a lot of their nerves on comparing their organs with penises of other men, on foolish measuring….So your boyfriend is likely to think that you have to use a sex toy because his penis does not give you pleasure.
What should you do?
Do show your boyfriend you love his penis. Express your admiration to his phallus which makes you crazy, which causes you to experience so strong orgasms. Make him sure that no sex toy, no realistic dildo can be better than his penis…And of course, do not buy a sex toy that is much bigger than your boyfriend's penis….Do not make your beloved man compare his penis with your vibrator.
3. If you masturbate with a sex toy, than your boyfriend is quite likely to think you are not satisfied with frequency of your sex life.
Poor guys! They know nothing about women! At least they do not know that women masturbate not only because of sexual dissatisfaction. While masturbating a woman learns more about her body, about her erogenous zones, about her sexual response…Who will explain all these things to them???
What should you do?
First of all, you should let your boyfriend know about things mentioned above (you can even show him this article). Secondly, do let him know you think about him when masturbating. He really should change attitude towards sex toys. Sex toys give you much enjoyment, and he wants you to be happy, doesn't he? You do love everything that makes him happy. Well, it does not concern other women……